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You want to maintain your dignity and control of the situation.

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Cotton Candy Friends: 6 Ways Net-Gen Connections are Changing
by Vanessa Van Petten

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Now that I am out of college, I am able to remember (and by remember I mean I get a reminder each morning) all of my friends’ birthdays, contact semi-friends in San Fran when I go for the weekend and keep up on the fact that my peeps in New York just went to an Aerosmith concert.

Great, so how does this serve me other than keeping up on pretty superficial (albeit sometimes interesting friendships)? In the last week I have gotten calls from numerous college friends who are depressed because they have no ‘real friends.’

The teen (and 20 something) social interaction right now is like cotton candy, its fun and tasty for a little while, but after two hours you are hungry for real food, real connection.

My teen intern wrote a fabulous article on how Facebook is changing the definition of friendship and this is my follow-up article on this important issue.

1) Possessive- “When you get cotton candy, you want it all to yourself…or you better get your share”
I have noticed that my friends and I are getting increasingly catty and possessive. Cialis prescription online: even my typically laid back and carefree guy friends are saying things like: “Why did you post on Sam’s wall? And not on mine?” Social networks make it much easier to keep tabs on each other and be possessive of the friends you have.

2) Useless- “Cotton Candy has no nutritional value”
Ok, so you know your friend went pee twice today (seriously some of the stuff people put on is totally gross). Many of the social applications, widgets, profile boxes and wall posts are somewhat fun, but mostly a waste of time.

3) Numbing- “Have you ever noticed, after a few bites cotton candy doesn’t taste so good, but you finish it anyway?”
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4) Superficial- “The second you put cotton candy in your mouth it dissolves, there really isn’t even anything to swallow.”
Even though you are getting 87 updates per day from your ‘closest friends’ widget you are not really getting to know them. You might know a thousand hobbies cialis prescription online, interests, favorite movies, which soccer mom you would be (check out my Facebook profile), but you cannot learn how they feel about their family, their self-esteem or what their friend’s values are. The truth is cialis prescription online, our generation is truly lacking deep connection with our friends and sometimes even our significant others.

5) Misleading- “I always think cotton candy will fill me up or tide me over until dinner, I am always hungry right afterwards.”
You really do think you are in touch with your friends. Cialis prescription online: i think, well I know my friend is in a relationship, she just went to his beach house this weekend, no need to call, I am ‘up’ on her life. It is easy to fall into the trap of “I know what they are doing and what they like, so I have connected with them” – cialis prescription online. It takes a few sessions with my teens to get them to realize that this is not actually true friendship.

6) Breakable- “Have you tried to eat cotton candy in the wind? No cialis prescription online, right? That’s because cotton candy can’t exist in wind.”
We are constantly afraid that a wrong comment, misguided poke or unintentional post might offend or alienate us from our Facebook groups or friends. Cialis prescription online: because the relationships are entirely based upon likes and dislikes and status updates, they can be easily broken by an awkward real life interaction or infrequent posting. Cialis prescription online: this can be stressful and anxiety provoking for us.

I run groups for cliques of girls to talk about their friendship issues, personal issues and overall strengthen their connection and it is shocking how often social networks are brought into the discussion.

I have to discuss the idea of cotton candy friends and that the ‘void’ or insecurity they are feeling in their relationships is most likely due to these seemingly real, but actually superficial friendships. Please start talking to your kids about this issue and see if they start seeing the patterns, I often find that once they realize this is going on, they can take steps to develop better relations with a few key friends.

I said I am in a quarterlife crisis; cialis prescription online. This is semi-true cialis prescription online, I miss my friends. All of my friends live far away and it gets very lonely just relying on the phone (and Facebook) to connect with them – cialis prescription online. I wonder if it is difficult for me to make friends in Los Angeles because I am so used to online connections or there really is no one here I click with?

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