Cialis online pharmacy: probably the biggest problem parents deal with on a daily basis is the arguing defiance and abusive behavior from their children.
In a few days I am going to do a special call in conference on what to do about arguing, talking back, and disrespect.
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What do I do when my seven year old twin sons hit, kick or scratch me just if I say “no” or try to enforce limits? They are already so strong that when I try to hold them in a restraining hold, it turns into a physical fight.
I’m a 51 year old grandma raising two grandchildren that have been diagnosed ADHD, Bipolar, ODD, Sensory Processing Disorder. Granddaughter is 8 yrs. old and has been diagnosed since she was two years old, and my Grandson is 6 yrs. old. They are both very arguing defiance and I also deal with the abusive behavior, towards each other and to me. I have tried so many different things and nothing has worked. My Granddaughter is the one that I have the most problems with and she has a learning disability also. Taking things away, grounding, ignoring, etc. doesn’t work on her at all. I’ve been wondering if she doesn’t also have some Aspergers Syndrome also. Now she is always threatening to run away. I need help in finding something that will work with these two.
HELP ME!
Thank-You For Your Time
Deborah Hopper
Dear Anthony,
I have a lot of trouble getting my children to bed at night and waking my children up in the mornings. They are rude, argue and are very disrespectful. I would greatly appreciate any help you can provide.
Thanks,
Laura
My daughter is verbally abusive to her brother. She says things to him that are hurtful and intentionally tries to draw him into a fight. When he responds with anger and physicality, she acts like she is the victim. This is the first part of the problem. The second part is that it is hard for me to watch this escalate and do nothing. However, if I go over and try to separate the two when their tempers are flaring to get them to go to their separate rooms to calm down, they turn on me with the same viciousness. If I ignore the fighting and leave the house, things might get violent when I am away but that’s what I have been doing. Any other suggestions?
A big problem for me is my two boys (4 and
constantly fighting with eachother. The younger one likes to climb all over and pester his older brother, and his older brother likes to annoy the little one. The older one also has a problem with answering back. No matter what we tell him to do, not do, etc… he always has an answer for everything. He is bright, but he likes to challenge us and will always say something just to be \’the opposite\’. The whining and tattle tailing always follows suit when the two boys fight. It\’s never ending! Aargh!!!!
Please help, as a step father to an 8 year old boy with adhd I have gotten to the end of my rope. A simple good morning as he walks past in the morning is greeted by that nasty whine. If you try to talk to him by engaging him with a question he just ignores me or answers with a response that in essence says your bothering me leave me alone, no foul language but just the loud leave me alone type response. When I speak to him, try to tell him something, try to correct him or even raise my voice to him it becomes a nightmare. I am at the point that it has become more than a chore to be around him. I don’t want that, the only time he seems civil is if he wants something, please help!!!!! How do I communicate with out just throwing up my hands and letting the bad behavior continue.
Hello,
My 11 year old son is so disrespectful & outright hateful to me and just about everyone around him. If I tell him No to something he askd for he swears at me, calls me filthy names, sometimes lashes out with fists or pushes me. He does this to everyone. I have tried many of your ideas & now that I have his school calling every week & he is in time out there every day I am at my wits end. I am so tired of crying & having my quality of life in such shambles. He is adhd with Odd. Need help badly.
I have a 15 1/2 year old son who is high funtioning autistic. He has been obviously going to the puberty stage. He is on meds, too. But, no matter what I do to keep him on a positive trail, it ends. He raises his voice, pounds on the counters/walls, nothing anybody does is right and it has gotten to the point of violence. He is bigger than me now. Along with the negativity is now he wants to kill himself by diving into a fast moving river/stream. I am not a negative person and I am always reminding him of how lucky he is. He has loving parents (but fights w/his dad every visitation), loving supportive family, aides, therapists, material things, you name it. He acknowledges that he is lucky, but that does not last long. How can I turn this negativity into something postive? I take each day one by one just hoping for the best.
Erika
I have a 15 year old son with anxiety issues, and recent ODD/Depression diagnoses. We are just going to a more thorough set of exams and treatments. He is argumentative, impatient and negative about most things. He has claimed he tried suicide, which we took seriously, but otherwise does not seem to be trying to harm himself or others. He defies almost everything that requires effort or concentration on his part. It is hard to find any reward, punishment or logic that will give him any lasting satisfaction. He recently has changed medication and has started eating poorly with corresponding weight gain. It’s not clear that is related, but it seems that is one thing that gives him comfort.
My 10 yr old son has ADHD, ODD, mixed expressive-receptive language disorder and Central Auditory Processing disorder. He has been on meds for 4 years now and we still haven’t found the ‘right’ one for him. Our family problems centre around his instant anger flare-ups (no warnings) when we ask him to do something he doesn’t want to do at the moment, or we make a remark he doesn’t like. He will come up within inches to our faces and scream at us, throw things around, slam doors,etc. He seems to be “out of control” in these moments and no amount of calm talking will bring him out of it. My son seems to want to challenge my husband into a fight and we don’t know how to respond to this. Even if we walk away, he follows us and taunts us. I looked myself in the bathroom one day to get away from him and he was trying to break down the door to see me. I finally got in the car and drove away…he was coming outside after me too! He seems to get a thrill out of getting people irritated. Then if we break down and react by yelling or threatening him, he acts like a scared puppy and pleads for us not to hurt him. What are we to do with this child who is already 105 pounds and is stronger than me?
I am so glad I am not alone! I have a 10 year old (adopted after fostering him) that has many of the problems everyone has discussed. It is so tireing to “fight the battle” day after day. I use many of Anthony’s lessons. Some work immediately and others show no response at all. I think the hardest part is trying to figure what will have the best result at a given time. What will work one day does not work the next. And others have to done over and over until it will finally sink in in that I mean what I say. But until he understands that – this is where the battle lies. My son will also bully, hit, push, yell at everyone and then cower and act as if I beat him, he so 2 sided in his actions and that is very frustrating to me to have him do that (I know he does it to guilt me – but when I am emotionally involved in the struggle I usually get upset/angry that he could even accuse me – this is also the emotional baggage he brought from his original family) I have to learn not to show this upsets me and he will (eventually) stop. keeping myself emotionally detached is the hardest to do.
I have 3 children their ages are 6, 5, and 2. My daughter, who is 5 is so mouthy, she thinks that I have to answer to her, not the other way around. She is very defiant. I can never get her to listen to anything I say, she wont help do chores. She yells instead of talking, never quite. In the mornings she is up before the sun and she think that since she is up the whole house needs to be. My son, who is 6 doesn\’t think he needs to sleep in his room. He tells me, if I put a television in his room he would sleep there. These two are so defiant that now my 2 year old is trying to push limits to far. I have tried grounding them, taking away items and privileges, time outs etc. I am at my wits end, what can I do to get them to listen.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!